Our hearts break tonight to tell you that Rebecca has gone to be with Jesus. She passed away this evening in mommy's arms at 6:15pm est. Her condition continued to deteriorate this afternoon to a point that was irreversible. We were brought to a place where we had to let her go. Although the painful journey did not take us to the place we had hoped, we took it faithfully and accept God's destination. He not only brought the rain, he brought the worst storm anyone could imagine.
UC hospital NICU was kind enough to let us bring her to see her sister for a while before leaving for home. Jessica and I are on the road now bringing her to Evansville. We will post arrangements when they are made.
Thank you all so much for the neverending support. We will never forger it.
Thank you to Rebecca's nurses that showed her love and cared for her so much at Children's Hospital. You will always be remembered.
Our hearts are breaking for you all. We will continue to pray for peace & comfort. Be safe traveling.
ReplyDeleteLove...Derrick, Brooke, Cayden & McGwire
Praying for you and your family in this time.
ReplyDeleteWe were so sorry to hear your news...we pray God will surround you with safety and peace as you make this long journey home. Our hearts go out to you.
ReplyDeleteI pray God will continue to take care of you and your family during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteMy mom works with Jessica at the hospital. I have been following your blog and praying for your family. I am so sorry for your loss. We are surrounding you with prayer and love even more tonight.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it is so difficult to understand Gods plan, but we know from his word that it is a perfect plan. As your hearts are breaking I pray that you will find comfort in knowing that your precious child is home with God. The Bible as you know describes heaven as a place too wonderful for us to even imagine. You will see her again one day! For now, know many people are praying for your family during this very difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Brandon and Jessica. You are amazing parents and have endured so much. I admire you both and have learned so much about your faithfulness to the Lord through this journey. I was touched by the way you loved your babies and made difficult decisions for their good. Rebecca will always remember her parents' love! I pray Jamie and I could be as strong as you two if faced with such a difficult situation. Thank you for showing Christ to us all. We continue to pray for you and mourn with you.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica-
ReplyDeleteEven though the little angel named Rebecca was only here with us for a short time, her life will make an impact on many people that you all will never meet or know. As I ponder the weight you must be carrying after the loss of your child, tears flow from my eyes. But I'm reminded of how your humble strength and unshaken faith is an incredible testimony to the God we serve. Your story is already changing lives and will continue as you use it for His glory. Psalm 145:21 says "My mouth will speak in praise of the Lord. Let every creature praise his holy name for ever and ever!" We will join with you in praising His name in this time of hurt and need.
I pray that as you drive tonight you feel the presence of the Lord like never before. I pray that the support of your family and friends around you showers the love of God on your lives over the coming days, months, and years like never before. I pray for understaning for your family and especially Alexis, Katelyn, Kenley and Joanna.
Isaiah 40:31 says 'but those who place their hope in the Lord will renew their strength, they will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not grow faint'. Brandon and Jessica we can all learn from your example of holding true to the unwaivering belief that our God is greater, stronger and higher than any other. Thank you for living your life as He calls us to.
God hold the Barnards in your arms tonight.
-DS
I am so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family. Your faith in God is so strong and amazing.
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Joe & Deena Carter
Lord, we ask for you to hold our dear friends in your arms right now. Comfort them and give them the strength to continue to trust in your ways even when they are so hard to understand.
ReplyDeleteJessica and Brandon I am blessed to have been able to meet Rebecca. She will hold a special place in our family's hearts as we have prayed for her daily. Thank you for sharing her with us and allowing us to get to know her.
The Wades
Jessica and Brandon -
ReplyDeleteI know you don't know me - I am Dave Wilder's niece in AZ and I have been watching and reading your posts daily. I am so sad to hear of Rebecca's passing - I can't even imagine feeling the loss that you feel today; you gave her so much love in her short, precious life and hopefully you can take comfort in knowing she is at peace now and no longer struggling.
My heart goes out to you and your family and I will continue to keep Joanna and your family in my thoughts. Take care of yourselves and know that you are loved and thought about daily - even by people you have never met and are miles away.
Take care,
Christy Miceli
Jessica and Brandon, My heart is breaking for your family. I am so sorry for your loss. You guys are so amazing and have shown your faith in God to the fullest. May God bless you and heal your hearts.
ReplyDeleteWhitley S.
Both of you and your whole family are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Your faith and strength is unfaltering with all that has been thrown your way and that is truly amazing.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless all of you in this time of need.
Brandon and Jessica, my heart breaks for you and your family tonight. You have shown us that we need to put our trust and faith in our Almighty God and He will lead us thru whatever storms of life we have. I pray for you and your family at this time, it is such a precious family and you two are so full of Gods love it shows in all your words on your blog. God bless you as you have to go thru this difficult time. Know that as you do all the prayers are still going up for you, Jessica, Joanna and your other girls.
ReplyDeleteMay God keep you wrapped in His dear arms throughout this time.
May God send comfort to you and your family during this time.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica, My heart is breaking right now, not only for the loss of Rebecca but seeing what you both have gone through and are going through. But through all of this hurt and the things you have both endured the last couple months I have seen your amazing faith in our God in the journey he has taken you on. As I sit here and try to write something, there's nothing to say that hasn't already been said. The only thing I can say that no one else can say is......I am so blessed to call you my son and daughter-in-law.
ReplyDeleteThough I regret that I didn't get to hold Rebecca in my arms (I am picturing Grandma Myrtle rocking her right now) I rejoice that God has blessed us with Joanna and I can't wait until she comes home and we can start spoiling her. We can never forget that she is a MIRACLE!
I love you both and I pray that God comforts you and you feel his presence in the coming days and weeks ahead.
Woke up this morning wondering how you were doing. So sorry to hear. I echo all the comments above, you are so faithful, strong and courageous. I admire you both. Will continue to pray for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteRebecca is where we all live are whole lives longing to be..in the arms of our loving Savior. She was so special that He wanted her to recieve her reward for a battle fought so bravely, the perfect home he had prepared for her. She is seeing things that we can't even imagine and hearing the choirs of angels that greeted her.
ReplyDeleteI pray for great strength for you Jessica and Brandon. The storm is not yet over for you, but Rebecca is seeing the rainbow. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding, but in all you ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.
I'm so sorry for your loss and pray that God will give you the peace and strength to get through this storm. I pray He wraps His arms around you during this difficult time. You both are a great testimony to always put your faith in God no matter what happens. Focus on what He has blessed you with "Joanna the Miracle". I admire your unfaltering faith and trust in Him who is great. God bless you and your family.
ReplyDeleteKathy Daniel
We are so sorry for your loss. Every creation of God's has a divine and specific purpose and Rebecca's short time here and your never ending faith has impacted more people than you will ever be able to imagine. We pray that you have peace and comfort knowing that Jesus will cradle your angel until we are all gatherered together in Heaven.
ReplyDeleteMyron & Becky Bechtel
Jessica & Brandon - I am so sorry. Please know that you are all in my heart and prayers.
ReplyDeleteMary M. Wrye
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteOur entire family is praying for yours. Praying that the God of all comfort will continue to hold you close and pour His love and grace out on you.
In Him,
Jeff, Rachel, Marcy, Matt, Mallory, and Mandy Smolen
I am so sorry for your loss, I am praying for your family. I am glad Joanna had the chance to say goodbye to her sister.
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Jessica and Brandon,
ReplyDeleteAlthough Rebecca was here on earth such a short time the lives she touched are many. You did everything you could for her and pray that you will take comfort in that. We will be praying for you.
We're continuing to pray for your family. You both are an incredible witness of God's love and faithfulness. May He surround you with the comfort & peace that only He can provide. Continuing to pray for you all,
ReplyDeleteJamie (Gray) Habermaas & family
So sorry to hear of the loss of little Rebecca. May the God of peace comfort your hearts. Praying for all of you.
ReplyDeleteMark and Kay Shell and Orchardville Church
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts break for you, we are praying Gods comfort surrounds you and brings you the peace that only He can. There are no words we can say right now, I also know - The comfort of the Spirit of God goes beyond words and will surround you completely. Our Hearts and Prayers are with you.
Our heart breaks for you two and your family. Just remember to let God guide you through this time, with him ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Just remember that you all will see her again one day!! We continue to pray for you and your family.
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Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts break for you over the loss of your little angel and your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for everything you have taught us all about walking with God through the storms of life. Your faithfulness and testimony have been amazing. Little Rebecca revealed Christ to so many though her short life and her story will continue to be for His Glory and affect more people than you will ever know this side of Heaven. May the peace of God surround you through the difficult days ahead.
My dear friend from college, Kelly Lengacher, shared your story with me through her blog. I am a twin and my heart grieves with you. I am praying for your family and for the life of precious Joanna as her sister is now with our Heavenly father.
ReplyDeleteAs I sit here trying to decide what to say, I realize that other than saying how very sorry I am for your loss, I want to thank you guys. Thank you for showing me what true faithfulness is. You have impacted more lives than you can ever imagine Rebecca has a special place in so many hearts. I can't imagine anything in life being harder than what what you guys are going through, and I will continue to pray for strength, comfort and peace in the days ahead. We love you guys! Levi & Angela West
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking a lot about little Rebecca this morning since I heard the news. Although I never met her, I can see from her pictures and from reading your blog what a beautiful blessing she is. I love the fact that, as tiny as she is, she is with God right now praising Him and experiencing unimaginable joy. She is an inspiration and a blessing - and what a joy she is to her Creator!
ReplyDeletePraying that God showers your family with His peace and His love.
~ Abbey & Josh Logan
I am so sorry for your loss. This may not be healing for you, but I know of a mother who lost her fight to cancer yesterday too--so she is up in Heaven with your little Rebecca. Thank you for showing me true faith.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteFrom the very beginning Bryan and I have been praying that God would surround you with a great support system with family and friends who will pray and encourage you. It is so evident that God has so many amazing people in your lives that love you and your girls so much. I hope that now more than ever you feel all the love and prayers that everyone is sending up.
As much as our hearts are breaking for you right now we are thankful for the time that you had with Rebecca. God gave you 74 precious days with your sweet little girl and for that we are grateful for every minute you got to spend with her.
May you feel God's comforting arms around you today and always.
The salvation of the righteous comes from the Lord, he is their stronghold in time of trouble. Psalm 37:39
Even though I didn't spend much time with her, I am grateful for the times we did see her. She will always hold a special place in my heart, I will never forget her.
We love you both and thank you for the inspiration that you are to us.
I just want to thank you both for sharing your little Rebecca with all of us. She had never met most of us, but was such a little inspiration to all. It is so hard to understand God's plan, but He wanted Rebecca with Him now. I pray you find comfort in knowing that she is with Our God now and not experiencing anything but joy with Him. You WILL see her again....and so will her precious twin Joanna. May God continue to give you strength through all of this. We love you guys!
ReplyDeleteBrandon & Jessica,
ReplyDeleteWe are praying for you both and for Alexis, Katelyn, Kenlee, and Joanna. I never got the chance to meet Rebecca, but I will never forget what an impact she had on my life and so many others. I am sure you don't know this, but I was baptized last month. I had been thinking about it for a while, and after seeing you two go through what you have been through with Rebecca and Joanna....I knew that this is what I wanted. I can't imagine the pain that you guys are in, I can only imagine, but know that Rebecca touched so many people and will continue to do so. May God be with you. We love you.
Brandon, Amy , Rylee, & Bryson
Thinking and Praying for the Barnard family during this most difficult time. We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You have our deepest sympathy.
ReplyDeleteJared & Julie Guillaume
We're so sorry for your loss. We thank you for sharing your faith and testimony which have touched so many. We continue to pray that God surrounds each of you - Brandon, Jessica, Alexis, Katelyn, Kenlee, and Joanna- with comfort, strength, and a peace that passes all understanding. Philippians 4:7
ReplyDeleteLove,
Kirk, Kendra, Dawson, Nathan, and Avery
Our prayers are with your family. I can not even imagine the pain and sorrow that you and your family are enduring. My prayer for you is to give you strenght and peace to know that she went to a place where Jesus met her at the gates, dried her tears and gave her wings. May God bless and carry you through this devistating time of need.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry. I have been, and will continue to be praying for you all.
Brandon and Jessica, I just want you to know that I've been reading through your blog, thinking about and praying for your family, and crying right there with you.
ReplyDeleteYou're going through just about the toughest thing imaginable, but I also want you to know that you are inspiring people with your honesty and courage . . . and especially your love. You remind me of a family that I heard speak at my church a while ago, on the loss of their son after 99 days:
http://www.itstartswith.us/blog/2009/04/21/a-celebration-of-life/
Please know that there are people out here who care about you and love you, even that we don't know you.
We can't take away your pain, but please know that we're standing here with you.
I'm sorry for your loss and you have my deepest sympathy. My prayers stay with you and your family. May God give you strength to go through all this hardship.
ReplyDeleteIm sorry, i dont really know what to say, but in the end things ill be okay, if they dont, thats its not the end (:
ReplyDeleteLove, Rachel
My heart is with you in your sorrow. The loss of a daughter is a heartbreaker, especially after so little of her life being lived. I'm praying for you, your strength and courage is inspiring,
ReplyDeleteI cannot begin to understand the pain of losing a child. I am so very sorry. You are incredible parents, and your unwavering faith is inspiring. My prayer for you is that you feel God's arms wrapped tightly around you during this tough time, carrying you through. He tells us that the storms in our lives will come, but he will be faithful to bring us through.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. There is'nt much I can say, but reading this blog almost makes me think of the song 'Keep holding on'. Because throughout this difficult time, there are so many people standing right by you, and God is never going to go away.
ReplyDeleteNate just said "We can't take away your pain, but please know that we're standing here with you" and we really all are standing here with you. I don't know how I would have coped in your situation, but I think I'd turn into the sort of emotional wreck that does nothing but cry all of the time. I pray so much that God gives you the strength to be better than that, that he helps you every single step of the way.
You are really inspiring people, and seeing how you have reacted and coped, I only wish I could be more like you. Up in heaven, Rebecca will no doubt be so proud of you. You, and her, will be in my prayers.
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI'm writing basically to back up what Nate has written.
I'm praying and thinking about your family, all the way over here in the UK. You have my deepest sympathies.
Psalm 48:14 For this God is our God for ever and ever; he will be our guide even to the end.
In His name,
Amen.
Brandon and Jessica - I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through and wont even pretend to imagine the difficulty. You will be in my families thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and am hopeful that something good can come from this.
ReplyDeleteJessica and Brandon - as a parent of twin girls myself, your story touched me deeply and I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteRemember Rebecca did her job in this world in this short time, her mission was complete and she left... what that mission was will be revealed in good time, through the lives she touched in this short span of time.
ReplyDeleteHave the faith and live fully, taking in the lessons as they present themselves. All the best
May God bless you and heal your hearts...I am so sorry for your loss. Know that Rebecca is in my prayers, as well as her family.
ReplyDeleteI can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling right now, but know that I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI would also like to tell you what a huge inspiration your faith is to me. I've read your last few posts and you have clearly gone, and are going, through so much. But your faith is unwavering and has strengthened my own - thank you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=og5AFUS3Rak
I join your internet family in praying for all of you.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry. AS a Mom of multiples myself I know how hard having your twins early must have been. I have a friend who lost both little boys in her twin set because they were born at 21 weeks. I know how hard this was for her so I imagine you just must be devastated. When you are feeling up to it please check out C.L.I.M.B. It's the Center for Loss In Multiples Birth. They may be able to help you. In the meantime just know that there are many people out their that share in your grief. May God be with you during this most difficult time. And may your little one continue to thrive.
ReplyDeletePlease know that my prays and thoughts go out to you during this difficult time. I hope that you can continue to remain so strong. Although I cannot imagine how you are feeling please know that I care greatly and your strong faith is inspirational.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. The world has lost a beautiful little girl, but heaven has gained another angel. My thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. I can't imagine what you're going through right now, but I know that your strong faith and unwavering hope are an inspiration. Rebecca was incredibly blessed to have you as parents. May you feel God's arms of love wrapped around you now, and may the Healer of our hearts bring you peace and give you strength.
ReplyDeleteJessica and Brandon, we are so very sorry for your loss and wanted you to know you and your family will be kept in our thoughts as you grieve the loss of your beautiful Rebecca!
ReplyDeletejessica and brandon - i am praying so hard for you both right now and will continue to do so. i cannot imagine how painful this is but know that God is so lucky to have your sweet baby Rebecca with him today. i hope He allows you so much strength to get through this tough week. and please know that will are all holding you up with our prayers.
ReplyDeleteI know it won't bring her back for me, or anyone else, to say that we're sorry. But nonetheless, I am so terribly sorry to hear about what has happened. You are both so incredibly brave. I will pray for her safe passage to the other side, and for you both to remain strong for her sister.
ReplyDeleteI and many others are thinking and praying for you all today and in the future xxxx
I'm not terribly religious, but when I read this, I prayed for the first time in a long time. My heart goes out to you, Jessica and Brandon, and I know that for what time she had on Earth, Rebecca was in the good and loving hands of wonderful parents. And I know she'll always be with you, watching out for you. *hug*
ReplyDeleteFor some moments in life there are no words. ~David Seltzer, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory
ReplyDelete"Some people make the world special just by being in it."
I'm lost for words, and do not know what words to express my condolences. I've quoted two beautiful lines, and I hope it sheds some light in this moment of grievance.
With love & support from across the ocean, Melinda.
i am so sorry for your loss. god be with you through this time.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you. And I know you will be able to see your little girl again someday, and your family can be reunited. Stay Strong! Xoxo. <3
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteAs Rebecca has left your arms - she is now resting peacefully in God's arms and there is no deterioration with the Lord. I pray that you feel love and support as we try to comfort a pain that we can't understand or even begin to imagine. I will continue to pray for you and your girls.
Hey guys.
ReplyDeleteI cannot imagine anything more painful and my heart really goes out to you. I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Losing a child must be so hard. Just know that things will always get better. Life will always improve and the world will get a little brighter.
You will be in my prayers. Good luck with everything.
My heart goes out to you. May you feel the presence of angels' arms around you in the days ahead. My wish for you is that you will come to the place where you can feel Rebecca's spirit with you as well. She will remain near you, her family, watching over you and helping you always, and wishes only that your hearts remain filled with the joy of love.
ReplyDeleteLittle Rebecca will always be in your hearts and in the hands of Jesus. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you and yours. It eases my heart to see that Rebecca has touched this world by bringing so many people here in love. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteYour sweet Rebecca has touched so many in her short time on this earth. My heart is with you guys. <3
ReplyDeleteSending you peace , love , and positive energy. Know now that your baby girl is strong and healthy in the arms of God :)
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you. Nothing can ease the pain of loosing a child, especially one so young as Rebecca, but at least we can let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for your pain. Rebecca is now in a better place. You are in my thoughts and prays.
ReplyDeleteall my love and prayers go out to you and yours. Words cannot express how sorry I am. <3
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. I have no words other than I am a 30 year old widow with 3 small boys. I held my husband as he passed away a little over a year ago. I just want to say that it is hard and hurts so bad but with constant prayer and great family and friends I have gotten through this and so have my boys... So continue to pray and keep your head up... Our family will be praying for peace of mind and heart for your family and God's healing hands to touch your lives... You will continue to be in our thoughts....
ReplyDeleteI am taken back by your bravey. I cannot imagine how it is to lose a child but you both make it seem so peaceful. You both are very strong and i would keep your whole family in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI can not imagine the kind of pain that you both are going through right now. Please know that we are thinking of you, and keeping you in our best thoughts during this time. There is so much love coming your way, and i hope that it can lift you up even a little bit right now.
ReplyDeleteI am so thankful for the time I got to spend with you guys and with Sweet Rebecca. She was such a strong little fighter who ran her race well! She, along with the two of you, have touched my life from just seeing the way you loved and cared for her and the ways she responded to you. Hearing and reading your thoughts and feelings with having a baby in the hospital has changed me as a nurse. I will treat each little baby as if if it was my own, make sure the girls have the prettiest bows, and that all the babies have the cleanest, moisturized lips! Thank you for your examples as believers in Christ in such a hard time and dark place. Your faith, hope, and source of strength is such an encouragement to me. I pray for peace and comfort for your family. -Nurse Jessica
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing worse for a parent than to lose a child. As a parent myself, my heart goes out to you. I'm glad you are seeking your comfort from God.
ReplyDeleteNo words can express the unimaginable pain of watching your child suffer. Having watched my youngest cousin fight cancer (for the second time now), I just want you to know that you are not alone.
ReplyDeleteTake care.
My prayers are with you....be strong!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious family! Continue to find strength in Jesus and your newest little angel for your other precious daughter.
ReplyDeleteYou are going through every parents worst nightmare, yet you do it with strength and with your faith intact, you are amazing...please know that there are people praying for you in the UK x
ReplyDeletesending you so much love and peace. praying for you all that God will continue to hold you close and remind you that He will not ever let you go, even when your pain feels unbearable.
ReplyDeletelaura
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine what you're going through right now. I just want you to know that you are not alone. We are all praying for you.
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the heartache and sheer pain of losing a child. I am praying for your entire family. I pray that you would find hope and comfort in our Father and that He would pour out His love onto your family. Just remember that He is always, always with you no matter what. Rest in Him in these terrible times. You are loved by me, your family, God, and all of the other people who've already commented. You are loved & cared for.
I hope that Joanna is doing wonderfully and that she continues to get bigger, stronger, and healthier.
I love you guys & will be praying for you.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will pray for your family. sending love your way....
ReplyDeleteMay God give you strength during this most difficult of times.
ReplyDeleteAs you go through this trying time I pray that God would give you His strength to carry on and His peace which passes all understanding would guide you and be with you.
ReplyDeleteMay God's love envelop you and your baby girl.
I'm very sorry for you loss. I cant imagion losing a child, but God is with you threw you hard times. And so are my prayers. I wish you all the best.
ReplyDeleteI give you all the strenght in the world to give Rebecca a loving place in your heart. I am so sorry for your loss. I will send a prayer your way.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteWhile we do not know each other in the physical world we are all connected in the spiritual world. Sorrow, pain, joy, hope and peace are universal. Today, I send you my energy for healing and finding a peaceful place in your soul to hold the memories for Rebecca. You are surrounded by love and many souls that are holding you in the light.
The thoughts and prayers of so many people are with you now. Take comfort in the love and support the world has shown you at such a difficult time. Hold each other tight.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you all *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts, my prayers, my heart.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for the loss of your little angel. Praying for you and your fanily.
ReplyDeleteStay strong.
I'm so sorry for your loss, all of you are in my and many others prays.
ReplyDeleteWith love, Amanda
I'm so sorry for your loss. I admire the strenght in you and your wife. you are in my thoughts and prayers. two caring hugs for you and your wife, and a kiss for Joanna.
ReplyDeleteBrandon & Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine what you must be going through. You don't even know how many people are out here inspired by your strength! Everything happens for a reason. I know you and your beautiful family will be stronger together and stronger because of Rebecca's memory. I will continue to hope and pray for your family and Joanna.
Joanne
As a Mom of a NICU baby...I understand the highs and lows... it amazing just how much a soul can bear... yet you do what you have to and cry along the way. My heart aches for your loss. Take comfort that your baby is now among the angels and will be watching over you all.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteThere are no words i can say that will take all the pain away. But there are the words of God, which can give you the peace that only He can give. It's hard for us as human to understand His plan but all we can do is trust Him, cause He will never let us down.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and
find me when you seek me with all your heart.
Jeremiah 29:11-13
All of you are in my prayers tonight.
Brandon and Jessica,
ReplyDeleteI wish there were something I could say to make it better. But there isn't. I can say that I've been reading through some of your blog posts, and I'm amazed by your strength and faith throughout this entire ordeal. God only gives you what you can handle....and He only picks the most special parents to raise a child with medical difficulties.
I know what it's like to have a baby in the NICU, as my sister was (I don't have children yet; I'm sixteen; she's two now). Scary, difficult...but this, too, shall pass.
I firmly believe that Rebecca is now an angel, watching over all of you, and that you'll see her again one day.
You are all in my prayers tonight.
With love,
Patricia <3
I'm so sorry for your loss. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for what you are going through. Keep you're faith up and stay strong. My prayers are with your family every day.
ReplyDeleteNobody can imagine what you are experiencing right now.
ReplyDeleteBut I assure you that reading your blog and seeing/hearing your anguish via your beautiful writing means that we are all sharing in your hurt.
I am praying for you today, for Rebbecca, for the rest of your family. Your beautiful little girl is in heaven and I (nor anyone else) don't know what to say to make it better other than "you're not alone"
You aren't
I haven't lost a baby, but I'm still here with you thinking of you so... you aren't alone.
Be strong, know you're loved. give all of that love you have bursting out to your other little ones.
I love you
I can feel your strong faith - and hope you will let the equally strong group of people who love and care about you lift you up and support you now and in the months ahead. You are never alone. Blessings for peace and strength
ReplyDeleteYou and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
Jessica and Brandon,
ReplyDeleteThis breaks my heart. I'm so sorry for your loss. Rebecca may have only been on Earth for a short time but she touched the lives of so many. I am amazed by your strength and faith and hope this is able to pull you both through the future.
You both and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Your strength, faith and love are awe-inspiring. I pray others find peace and faith through your incredible example.
ReplyDeleteYou and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Praying for strength for you all during this difficult time, release from your grief, and healing for Joanna. I pray you will still be able to see the love and joy that remains in her. As well to continue to hold on to Rebecca's strength and gentle spirit, the love and joy that was found in being her parents even for a short time. May her spirit live on and comfort you all as you continue the rest of this journey.
ReplyDeleteI am so terribly sorry for your loss. I am sending you peace, love and healing.
ReplyDeleteI am infinitely sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry to hear of the loss of Rebecca. I know that there are no words that can take away your pain. I just hope that, somehow, reaching out to your family through here will let you know that there are so many who love and care about your situation, and are reaching out to you at this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless your wonderful family as you continue down this painful path. May He bring you peace, love and strength.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI would like to leave you with the hope that I was born 6 weeks prematurely and weighed only 2 lb.s
Good luck in your future!
Your faith is a testimony to everyone here, and lets me know that I can have complete confidence in Y'shua (Jesus) as well, in the exact same way. May God bless you in His name and continue to give you peace and abundance.
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My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Nancy L. Thomas, Dallas, TX
ReplyDeleteYour family is in my prayers and thoughts. God bless all of you.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Rebecca. Please know that my heart and soul are with you and your other children. She will be an angel for you and the other children in your family. I can't imagine the depth of pain you feel, but allow yourselves grieve so that you can heal.
ReplyDeleteall my love,
Tamar
stay strong
ReplyDeleteI just learned of your heartache through another blog, and my heart goes out to you.
ReplyDeleteReading through this blog shows your faith and trust in God, and this will bring so much honor to His name!
Ah, our God is such a faithful and true God, tender in His compassions for His children!
I would like to point you to the comfort of Isaiah 40, as it has brought me peace and assurance many times when I was in grief.
May the God of ALL peace comfort your hearts.
May God help you to be strong in this sad time. Irving Bible Church has a podcast on iTunes, and one posted a few months ago called "The Wounded Healer" may help you.
ReplyDeleteYour family will be in my prayers, and I hope that in time this pain will ease. Jesus needed Rebecca, He had a plan for her. I am sending you all the love in the world.
So incredibly sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and for family!
ReplyDeleteMuch love and hugs
Sherri
There's really not much I can say that hasn't already been said, but I would like you to know that you are in my prayers. God has a plan for us all and I'm sure Rebecca is up there having all kinds of fun. Stay strong!
ReplyDeletei am so sorry for your loss. you and both twins will be in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI cannot even being to imagine what you might be feeling. I am very sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts and energy to you and your family at this time of sorrow. Know that you are being thought of today and every day. You have support from hundreds as you prepare to say your good-byes to Rebecca and continue to care for and support the growth of her sister. Lots of love, Kate
ReplyDeletePlease know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for your loss! Lots of love and prayers going out to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteI'm terribly sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes well in the long run, and remember it was for the best to stop her suffering.
ReplyDeleteThat breaks my heart to hear. I'm so glad she was in your arms, though. And, n ow she is safe in God's arms. God bless your family in such a terrible, difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm so terribly sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and I'm sending you my best wishes.
ReplyDeleteAs a twin myself, this is very sad for me to hear about. My sister and I were born premature as well, but we were both fortunate enough to make it. Best wishes for you and the other child, and here's hoping that she has a healthy life.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking about Joanna, and I hope that all works out for the best.
ReplyDeleteThe dedication and strong faces in which you face this trial is proof that you have a very good, very bright future in front of you. Best of luck, and best of wishes, and here's to the health of your baby girls, where ever they may be.
ReplyDeleteMy heart weeps to hear such a saddening story. But there is light, in your other baby girl, who seems to be doing wonderfuly. I will keep you both, your family, and Rebecca in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteKnow people are sending waves of strength and love your way. Love and Light, CS
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Best wishes for your other child.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Keep your heads held high, your family will be in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteWith love,
L
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family best wishes for the future.
ReplyDeleteI dont know you personally, but you seem like amazing people. Just remember that this was God's plan, and that your second child needs you more than ever. I hope your lives are wonderful and filled with joy. Never forget that Rebecca is in a better place now.
ReplyDeleteWe are all sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for you and though it is sad, Rebecca now gets to be with our savior. I love you all and you inspire me with your strength.
ReplyDeleteI cannot think of anything more sad than the loss of a child. May you be surrounded by the love of family and friends in this difficult time. Peace be with you.
ReplyDeletekxm
I'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for your family. Remember, God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. For now, Rebecca is in God's arms and He will take care of her.
ReplyDeleteI am impressed by your strength and faith during such a hard time; good thoughts, love and prayers your way.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss, I can not imagine what it must be to lose a child. Just stay strong, keep in mind that your other child needs you and remember that our thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteThey that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength: they shall mount up with wings as eagles: they shall run and not be weary, and they shall walk and not faint.
ReplyDeleteIs. 40:21
I pray as you walk through the next few hours, days, and weeks that are coming up you will find renewed strength. Your loss is profound, and at times may seem unbearable, know that there are those of us out here that are lifting your burden up to God so you may mount up with wings as eagles. That you may run through this tragedy and not be weary and shall walk through the coming days and not faint. ~ In Jesus name, Amen.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am happy you have the support of those around you. Sending all my best to your other little one. Keep faith and stay strong. Much love.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with your life. It's a hard thing, but you will come out of it stronger.
ReplyDeleteAnd your baby, good luck with her in her final place of rest.
While I'm sure nothing can ease the pain you are going through right now, it looks to me like you are surrounded by love and kindness: everyone from the nurses to your family to anonymous folks like me. Though it will take time, someday you'll be able to take such comfort and joy in the memories of all the love and positivity that has surrounded you during this time. In a recent conversation about the "Life is Good" line of tee shirts a friend commented to me that life is not always good....my response was to wait a few days and it will be good again. I wish you and your family all the best.
ReplyDeleteSharing your story is such an amazing sign of love for your child and for others. Sharing your pain and the details of your journey have touched many more people than you know. Your love and your story have surely made many others thankful for what they have.
ReplyDeletePlease know that everyone who has read your story walks with you during this time of pain. That we all walk with you as you move forward from this moment. That we all are better people for having known Rebecca's story.
God Bless You!
Rebecca is in a better place now where she is not in pain and she is in the hands of Jesus. He will take good care of her. God bless.
ReplyDeleteThis must be a terribly trying time for you, and I can't possibly begin to think how you feel.
ReplyDeleteAny message of strength can't convey enough emotion, but hopefully you know that a lot of people are thinking of you and wishing you hope, strength and fortune in your continuing journey.
Take care,
Danny.
While there is nothing I can do to help you get through this time, my heart goes out to you. I wish you the very best in everything. All I can do is wish you good luck and say how inspiring you are.
ReplyDeleteG-d Bless and Good Luck!!
Sending you thoughts of love and support during such a difficult time. Please know how much you are loved in this world. I would give anything to take away your pain.
ReplyDeleteI'm only a kid, and so I have no idea what you are going through, but I'm sure it would be like losing a sibling..I am so sorry for what happened..
ReplyDeleteYours is an incredibly sad experience to have to go through. I can only imagine the depth and variety of emotion you must be feeling. My heart reaches out to you both during this time.
ReplyDeleteYour faith is admirable. To say that you have been led to a place you did not wish to go, but to hold on to your beliefs is Faith indeed. Divine Love. You are surrounded by Love and Light, may the brightness help as you process all that this experience brings your way.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time....
i am so sorry for your immeasurable loss, our hearts are with you. find strength in the love of those that surround you. thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteSending thoughts of peace and healing to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteOn the day that my best friend died, I thought my world crumbled and I wish that no one has to go through death of their love ones ever again.
ReplyDeleteMy hearts, thoughts and every single bit of love is with you and your family as you fight through this. Lots and lots of love.
May God as you know Him comfort you and your family at this time. You are all in my prayers on this New Moon night.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of your loss, even though I don't know you.
ReplyDeleteMy sister died of a heart defect and through my non-profits devoted to CHD I know thousands of families who've experienced the heartache and grief you're feeling now.
I have no words of wisdom because there's nothing anyone can say that makes this pain easier, however you and your daughter are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love & light,
Estrella
Your profound courage during this journey is a testament to the grace and elegance of the human spirit under immense pressure. You have remained together, offering one another strength, and demonstrating such mental, spiritual, and physical endurance while you watched your daughters come into this world early and fight for every day, growing and developing.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that Joanna has lost her twin, that your elder daughters have to suffer this devastating vacancy in their hearts, that as a mother and father you prayed so long and so very hard for your darling Rebecca Sue. My heart aches for the doctors and the nurses who did their very best to keep her healthy despite the challenges she faced, and for the relatives and friends who hoped for, prayed for, and rallied around your family.
Please take comfort in the love that surrounds you and let its power heal you in the time to come. We are here, many voices and minds and people, reflecting upon your daughters' journeys and your own, sending our thoughts and love out.
What a beautiful example of godly parents!! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Although I haven't lost a child after birth, I lost one at the end of my first trimester a few years ago. God is so good to give us comfort and grace more than we can ever imagine! I wanted to share these verses with you, they've always been a great comfort to me.
ReplyDelete2 Corinthians 4:16-18 For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward [man] is renewed day by day.For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding [and] eternal weight of glory.While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen [are] temporal; but the things which are not seen [are] eternal.
One day you'll be reunited again as a family! Keep holding on to God's promises and he'll keep holding on to you!
I am deeply sorry for what youre going through. But know that my prayers are with you. Dont lose faith! Keep on keeping on =]
ReplyDeleteJessica and Brandon,
ReplyDeleteI work with your Aunt Jane and my daughter, Jessica is a friend of your brother Josh. I have been following the twins progress on your blog, and am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denise Vowels
I know that any words I might say to you right now won't change the pain in your hearts. All I can do is quote from Steven Curtis Champan when I say "Out of these ashes, Beauty will rise." I encourage you to purchase his Beauty Will Rise CD, it helped me through the loss of my family member. Know that hundreds are praying for you. I joyfully await the day when I can meet Rebecca in heaven with you.
ReplyDeleteWith unmeasureable love,
Sydney
bRANDON AND jESSICA,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I know nothing can heal the pain but time and love. Know that love and support are all around you! I can see you have a strong faith, that will carry you through the tough times. Wishing you peace, love, and blessings. I will pray for you and your baby.
I've been pondering on how to tell you all that everything will be fine, though, I can't come up with the exact words I want to use. I'm not a mother, I won't be for quite some time, but I hope to be like the two of you. You are such caring parents and you obviously love your children with everything you have. And although I know that Rebecca won't be able to be with you physically, I'm sure she will be very happy to know that she had such wonderful parents who loved her so much.
ReplyDeleteIt may seem cold, but keep fighting and try to be optimistic no matter what. That way, you both will be able to heal and Rebecca won't be so sad to see you mourning over her. I'm sure she is in Heaven and awaiting your arrival.
You all are in my prayers.
I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss and your pain. Your faith in God is beautiful. One quote that has always give me hope in such storms is, "God gives burdens - also shoulders."
ReplyDeleteGod gives you only as much as He knows you are strong enough to take on. You will get through this.
So much love, faith, and hope I am sending you -
~Libbie~
God is so wonderful-even in times when things happen that we don't understand. Your faithfulness to our Savior has carried you thus far & it will continue to carry you through this time of grief. Rebecca was a very blessed child to have parents like you. She will thank you one day soon. May God bless you & your family now & always.
ReplyDeleteBrandon and Jessica, I am so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteTo lose a child must be the worst thing that could ever happen, and I know that I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. For this to happen to anyone just isn't fair at all!
I hope, and believe, that she will live on in your hearts and that she will never be forgotten, even though she had so little time to be remembered for.
Björn
My thoughts are with you during this challenging time, and I am so, so sorry for your loss. I wish there were something that I could do or say to take way the pain.
ReplyDeletePlease stay strong and know that many of us are sending our very best your way, okay?
My thoughts are with you
ReplyDelete-Michael
Know that there are many people around the world thinking and praying for you at this time of intense loss. Small comfort, but perhaps comfort nonetheless.
ReplyDeleteMelissa, Washington, DC
My prayers are with you and your family. May you have great strength and love among you during this terrible time. I hope you fare well!!
ReplyDeleteLove,
a random stranger :)
Your story is such a sad one, but I'm positive you'll come through it. I wish you luck with everything. Never give up. :)
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of this event in your family. Please know that I will be praying for your family as you trudge through this difficult time together. God Bless.
ReplyDeleteMary, Green Bay, WI
Sending many prayers your way...
ReplyDeleteGod can be so mysterious, that's what I'm learning as a new Christian but I'm also learning that he has a plan for us all. I can't say what big plans may come of this tragedy nor do I pretend that saying so will do anything but erupt painful tears within you and the ones that you love but hold steady to his words as they will surely bring great comfort. I've never experienced a loss like you have experienced but when times are bleak I turn to worship music and the song that helps me the most, the words that help me the most are this:
ReplyDelete"Cause I'll be by your side whenever you fall, in the dead of night whenever you call and please don't fight these hands that are holding you."
God Bless You, I will pray for your family.
Although you may be in pain right now. just remember Rebecca is in a better place now and pain free, I'm sure she'll be watching over you from up above
ReplyDeleteAlthough this journey may be tough and painful, I'm sure at the end it will be all worth it.
My Prayers are with you
My heart goes out to you through this difficult time. It must be difficult, so much more difficult than I could possibly imagine, but I admire the strength and courage with which you have endured the events that have unfolded. Find comfort knowing that your baby girl is with God now, where no one can ever hurt her. I'm sure that as the years go on, she will find ways to remind you that she is watching you from her place in Heaven, and to thank you for being the best parents you could be for the time she spent with you.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Michiko xoxoxo
ItStartsWith.Us
Our prayers are with you and your family. We are so incredibly sorry to hear of your lose but please take some comfort in knowing that there are so many people thinking of you and praying for you and a peace that surpasses all understanding that only God can bring.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers and thoughts are with you and your entire family at this time. You are very dedicated parents, and your children are very blessed to have you as guides in their lives. Trust that the Lord will also guide you on how to handle this situation. Bless you all
ReplyDeleteI don't know you but I found this blog recently and read most of the entries. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what y'all are going through. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteLove and best wishes,
Courtney
I... can't even begin to imagine the pain of loosing a child. Please know that the prayers and thoughts of my entire family are with you. Your strength and dedication to your children in a situation about this are traits that we all admired.
ReplyDeleteAs I sit and read this blog at nearly 1:00 am ... I realize we may never know the full impact Rebecca Sue had on this world over a short 74 days. Like many others, she inspired me to be better, to love God and others deeper, and to lean on God's understanding rather than my own.
ReplyDeleteThough we may never understand why God took her to be with Him so quickly, it is clear her life made huge waves with eternal meaning and purpose. Like nothing I have EVER experienced before, I observed faith and power through her battle ... and she was a fighter (just like her sister).
There really are no words that seem worth saying ... but I'm sure there are many lives, I know of two for sure, that will never be the same because of Rebecca Sue.
Brandon and Jessica, I'm simply blown away by you guys. I cannot imagine a heavier burden to carry ... not a more difficult road exists than the one you are walking. Your faith and closeness with God through such pain has been the greatest display of God's love in my lifetime. This isn't the outcome any of us had hoped or prayed for ... God's design is unfathomable. Yet you STILL remain strong and in Him, you STILL desire to honor Him, worship Him, love Him.
Rebecca Sue ... we'll miss you. You will not be forgotten because you simply can't be forgotten ... we're all forever changed because of you.
We love you guys.
Josh & Emily Mushlock
you've been granted an amazing gift to be able to pull through this time with such hopeful spirits, heads staying high.
ReplyDeleteYou're honestly the strongest people I've ever known of.
Much Love,
Anonymous.
im so sorry to read about your loss
ReplyDeleterebecca will always remembered. stay strong as everything happens for good.
your family is in our prayers
Your faith is awesome, as is our God. May His peace be with you and your family always x Bless you , bless you , bless you xxx
ReplyDeleteI can't begin to say how sorry I am for your loss - I understand that no words will come close to describing how you must be feeling. I had a baby cousin, Xavier, pass away last year, so I hope he finds Rebecca in heaven where they can be with God now, with no pain, or suffering.
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers x
I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is broken for you. Just know that there are so many people thinking of you and praying for you. I pray for peace and love for you and your family in your time of mourning.
ReplyDeleteHey guys, stay strong. Extremely sorry about your loss, I actually shed a tear reading your story. Your family will be in my heart and prayers over the next couple of months.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Your story is truely inspiring. Stay strong. Your baby is where God planned for her to be. I'm praying for your other baby and your entire family. xx
ReplyDeletePraying that God gives you and yur family comfort and peace at this time in your life.
ReplyDeleteSpirit carries on. Rebecca's spirit might be flying around you smiling happily just now, expecting you to keep it going.
ReplyDeleteMy heart and prayers go out to you and your families. As a mother, I can't imagine your loss. Thank you for sharing your story and feelings. May you be comforted and continue to feel hope.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Jenny
I admire your faith and strength. I'm praying for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless you.
My prayings are with you and with Becca Sue. I hope you will find strength and faith to come over this.
ReplyDeleteWith love,
a stranger.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jer 29:11
ReplyDeleteDearest brother and sister in Christ,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart also breaks that Rebecca was called Home so quickly, but perhaps it is because God needed to send one of his best angels to bless another family as yours has been blessed even by the short time you were able to spend with her. Thank you for sharing your story and please know that you are in my prayers and the prayers of so many other people during this time of sorrow. I don't know you personally, but I love you and support you. God bless you and your family.
Love, Ella
All my sympathies to your family. Know she is in a better place and will always be with you.
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